Is this right?

Lifestyle Relationships
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For the hubby to go outwith his friends after work? Say he works the whole week and spends all his time with his wife after work on the weekdays but on Friday’s after work goes out with friends?

I think everyone deserves sometime with their friends…How often would you allow your spouse to leave you at home and go out with his friends in a month?

Another idea would be to go whereever he’s going..but that may not always be appropriate as you wouldn’t want your hubby to be always there when you are out with your girlfriends..

what’s your take on this?

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One day a week sounds reasonable. Everyone needs their space and their own life. My husband is pretty good in this regard, he doesnt hold it against me or make a fuss wheN I hang out wiht my friends. And I wouldn't have a problem with him seeing friends once a week or so either, it's all really up to him.

On Muqawee's Request
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nah he shouldn't be going out with his friends.. no one deserves a life with friends after marriage!

ok sarcasm aside, once a week is just fine.. It shouldn't be a big deal!

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i ask why not everyday!!!

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hahaha.

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Can’t agree more … Heer Din Eid Or Her Raat shab’a Barrat honi chahiya … :stuck_out_tongue:

After all hum bhee insaan haan :snooty:

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ye! let her talk on the phone all day long and we have these "once a week" limitations!?

~Today's Breakfast~
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nah...weekends/weeknights=family
i prefer weekdays/nights...to meet up with friends... :)

Four Marriages for women!!!
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'allow him?..'??..haha!..ur funny..he'll probably do whatever the hell he wants anywayzz..whether any1 likes it or not..

The last sentence you spoke
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Re: Is this right?

sajjan, yaar gawa dittey neiN
phichley piyaar pula dittey neiN
tendey tak khawa dittey neiN

Hun taras kha ni Begum
Kadi te peke ja ni Begum

Apni marzi aaye jaye
MundiyaaN wargey kaprey pa'aye
RataaN nooN shabrat bana'aye

seeney wich thand paa ni begum
kadi tey peke ja ni begum

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I'd say discuss the issue and come up with a solution that both of you are comfortable with......words such as "allow" don't work to well with spouses...husbands or wives...

Time Pass - March 2012
Time Pass - March 2012
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Once in a while it's good to get out with friends. I do think that if it becomes a pattern that prevents them from doing specific things together, then maybe they should readjust. Regardless, your feelings should be made clear to the other so that misunderstandings don't develop.

Coral Lippy
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I think both spouses should have their own time away from eachother. Is anyone really in a position for stop the husband from going out, it would make him feel trapped. Marriage is compromise.

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Get a remote controlled man for yourself . Why are you trying to be control freak , it is not good for a healthy marriage.

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:daaghu2: maybe one that can cook too? :slight_smile:

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no way! friday nights…no! :naraz:

he can go out on monday and thursday nights…but the rest better be spent with me :snooty:

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Wednesday night … Students night out :@:

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as soon as he goes out with friends, im running to my parents house. or rather that would be my excuse to go visit my parents :smiley: in that case, i think im gonna force him to go out with his friends :cb:

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i think its "kadi tey mekhay ja ni begum"..

haha nice one though.. fits the thread :)