MIA, The way we are planning it so far is have my abbu take care of her while we are out shopping. The big stuff is already done, i did it on my last trip a few months ago. Just the little things now like choorian, shoes etc for the dulhan.
Gemini, If i was in Pak, i would have had two maids lol. The culture is very different. That being said, i guess maids arent common in our family because most everyone lives in a joint family system so the work is divided. I didnt mean to diss anyone at all, i just didnt expect anyone telling me i need a maid to take care of my child for me. Thats all.