If someone is replying to everything with to you too or xyz to you as well or I am also happy xyz
honestly adding nothing just completely agreeing and saying the same thing back ?
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He must be a really poor texter/communicator. I don’t know about genuine but that would be an INSANELY boring conversation.
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They may or may not be.
But they also may feel like its not their place to guve their honest opinion on the situation or that you may mind if they do. So it turns into a haan-mein-haan, na-mein-na situation
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For example, one of my friends lets call her 1, was talking to me once about friend 2 ( her bff, my kinda aquaintence).. ans how 2 doesnt really message her that much and ignores her sometimes, saying thats messed up.y responses were all like. Yeah, i agree 2 should respond.
Then she says i know 2 has been going through a difficult time and i should be more sensitive to that i guess but its still annoying. I respinded with something like, yeah 2 might need some space or something so its ok.
So it was a classic haan-mein-haan, and na-mein-na scene
My reasoning for doing this was cuz tmrw, when they are bff’s again, i dont want 1 going to 2 and saying i talked crap about her when i wasnt (i dont really trust 1 that much)
So i guess it depends on the conversation
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Most likely not genuine. For one, there has to be some disagreement sometimes, no two people can agree to same thing allllll the times. Secondly, even if they do agree, even the bests of friends have different way of explaining and expressing. Agree with what someone said here, that’s some boring conversation or possibly not even a conversation.
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so would you say they are not happy with the relationship or just dont know how to express themselves better? mybe they do feel teh same way but dont know what to add ?
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A relationship asks for more open and active communication than just nodding the head at everything. Yes, there is a possibility of not being able to express but if you are at the receiving end of these responses, you need to clarify that you expect more than just yeses and want a proper conversation. There is another possibility where the topic of discussion isn’t interesting for the other party so find out about the interests and see if the conversations flow better in those cases.
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If it was just once or twice it wouldn’t matter much, there are certain topics where if you agree and you don’t know more information and can’t add anything more to the conversation you would just nod and agree.
But everyone has something they are passionate about, somewhere along the line if you discuss those things the conversation opens up and flows and people talk about there various experiences in dealing with xyz, or experiencing xyz.
But in your case it seems like thats not the case. Most people just ghost people like this..
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I completely agree with everything OP states