Re: Is this friendship illegal
Redvelvet the fascination is there but its more than about pakistani dramas. Its also the way Pakistani girls speak urdu and the way the friends i have make me feel like family in 1 meeting rather than strangers. Thats the good side of my experience. I also find them more approachable then Indian girls.
She feels similar about Indians. Her dad was in Pakistani airforce and has many Indian friends. She had asked him if she can visit India and see the culture there. Her mum didnt want to let her go. She tried to make friends with some of her indian neighbours but they are much older with older kids. It didnt work out. I also tried making more Pakistani female friends online but got unfriended few timws due to over compliments. I told her this might sound strange but i had many pakistani friends online which is why i know a bit about Pakistan. I told her we both have had similar experiences and if she wants to see me as an older sister she can.
You’re also right in that I need to maintain distance and not be so keen. I just want to be there for her to encourage her to use her talents and abilities to achieve her potential. There is lot of support out there but