..that your spouse, boyfriend/girlfriend, or fiance has absolutely nothing positive to say about your personality? Do you believe after knowing each other for x number of years, your SO just forget how wonderful he/she thought you were when he/she first met you? Or is it because over the years, your SO has learned that there really isn’t much positive to the one he/she first fell in love with? How common it is?
What would you do if you found out that your SO feels he/she has nothing positive to say about you? Should you marry someone who thinks nothing of you but insists he/she loves you to death?
been in such a situation i can tell you no sane person would do or say something like that. whosoever has such issues certainly have some psychological problem which u cannot fix ! run......and don't look back to that person again.
No its not common and it's not normal,
if you can't find anything positive about your partner then you shouldnt be with them.
I have known my husband for nearly 4 years, I can say a hundred positive things about him. It's what keeps us together, otherwise I wouldn't be in this marriage.
What if that person is right? I mean what if there really is not anything positive to say about the one he loves. That person may be dealing with a potential narcissist here. I don't think there's anything positive about narcissists. They are disrespectful and insensitive to others' needs. However, this person has never bluntly said there is nothing good to say about the one he loves but can never come up with one either when asked.
If you ask him to name just one thing about you that he likes and he can't due to your personality, bad behaviour, etc. etc., WALK AWAY. Don't think that he will eventually change and realize you have good qualities because he won't.
Narcissitic personality disorder. It's real and it exists. Do not expect him to admit he has a personality disorder ... the narcissit is always too superior to admit their own flaws ....