Is this common with pakistani women?

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@coolgirl

So I should tell you I live in Michigan where pretty much 50 pakistani families reside at most so to hear something like this makes me think if this is common elsewhere also.. A girl (18) got married to her cousin in end of December and her mom kept insisting for her to have a baby right away. She got pregnant in feburary. The reason behind this was that “men respect their wives more once they become mothers”. How true is this because I know this is not the first time I have heard this..

In my case I got pregnant a week after my ruksati so i didn’t get to experience this.. infact when i told my mom she almost fell off the bed.. and I was in denial for almost first trimester until I saw the ultrasound

quiet common, .. but i personally thought being a guy - this is just wrong. AS RV said, it’s a big issue for most of the guys to transit into parenthood mode.

I should say give it some time,.. at least 2/3 years to settled down and finish one “things to do before having children” ..

if you haven’t created this list,.. do it…