Re: Is this Abuse or not?
No, it’s not physical abuse. Paheli is right in saying that it’s not wise to get into a physical struggle with someone who is already in a rage. I do find it odd if you’re wondering if he physically abused you. You said that he has never hit you or thrown anything at you. Or maybe I am wrong and it’s easy for a person to become confused because things happen so fast during the heat of a conflict that one may not sure if an action was intentional or accidental . Clarify it with him as opposed to making an accusation that he physically abused you. And if you’re currently living with him but want to take a break from him…then do your packing when he’s not around or maybe have another person around while you’re packing, so your husband is less likely to act out.
this. i don’t want to classify it as abuse, but it’s hard to tell. i would think no matter what a man would never lay an angry finger on his wife. that’s why i am confused.