I get confused, because I believe that Islam is a reasonable sensible religion, and things that are prohibited are prohibited for some reason. I dont understand the workarounds though, someone explain me this stuff
X2 mein bhi yehi sochti hoon ke Islam eik jamaa and mukamal mazahab hai sensible logo ke liye jo isey samjhna chahe to and us per belief kerna chahey to:)
so riddle me this batman…
1) sleeping around is bad, it has societal, social, moral implications but then i see guys in beards throw around words like misyar and mutaah. what is that all about and why does it make any sense.
Muttah and Misyar ke baarey mein mera itna extensive knowledge nahi to mein us detail mein jana nahi pasand karoon gi jab tak ke mujhe sahi ilm naa ho.
2) some say interest is usury, fine. but then the same people look at 'shariah compliant financing" , explain to me how shriah based financing in essence is any different than a fixed interest mortgage?
Kuffar-e-makkah bhi yehi samjhtay they ke ham sirf munaffa hi to ley rahey hain to phir is mein buraii kaya hai 
and woh yeh nahi samjhtay they ke soud and munaffay mein bohat faraq hai
Jahaan tak Islamic banking kaa taaluq hai its not my concern ke woh kisi aur se soud letay hain to baat waheen aa jaati hai No its not no matter how you look at it.In my humble opinion jo log yeh mashwara detay hain ke hamein “phaltoo SHariah financing” ko chor dena chahiye woh is baat per kyoon nahi aatey ke ham aisa kaun saa system banayein jis se hamein and baqi muslims ko faida ho. doosron ke banayey hoay system mein keeray nikalna bohat asaan hai system ko soch ker samjh ker banana ke soud bhi naa ho and muslim ko faida bhi ho bohat mushkil .mujh se kisi ne sawaal kiya thaa ke agar house ko munaffa hota hai to Islamci Shriah “phaltoo” financing waley kaya kartay hain and agar nuqsaan hota hai to Islamic Shariah “phaltoo” financing waley kaya kertay hain ofcoure us shakhs kaa saawaal sahi hai mujhe bhi yehi concern thaa bohat ziada ke then I asked them and they said agar aap ko faida ho gaa to aap ko apna profil miley gaa and agar aap ko nuqsaan ho gaa to us ki responsibility hamari hai ham aap ke saath nuqsaan mein shamil hon gay.Look agar koii Phaltoo shariah financing kaa muslim mujhe document per yeh baat state ker ke dey day to mein us ki baat maan loon gi kyoon ke woh eik muslim hai mein aur ziada tahqeeq mein nahi jaoon gi.Hamein muslims kaa kaabhi kabhi itebaar bhii kerna chahiye.
3)you are na mehram and you observe hijab..so how does a simple act of nursing a child make him a ‘mehram’ its not that his genes changed, its not that he became a blood relative.
yeh sab se behter jawaab hai but I think aap bohat bara sawaal ker rahey ho because Prophet Mohammad(p.b.u.h.) ne Hazrat Haleema (R.A.) kaa doodh bhi piya tha and aap yeh pooch rahey ho ke jo hamaray Nabhi ne kiya woh ghalat thaa :aq: WOW
4) I am have read by some that muslims should not dress like nonmuslims and that my jeans and jacket are bad, usually the type of people saying that are wearing the clothes traditional to their geographical area and either were clothes that they and non muslism both wore..and wear like iom middle east, or pakistan and india
yeh eik phaaltoo issue aap ne utthaya hai because aap bohat achi tarah jaantay ho ke dress kaa sirf modest hona zaroori hai paint shirt waghairaa kaa is se koii taaluq nahi
Ab meray pass aap ke liye khuch sawaalat hain aap please jawaab dena pasand kerein gay to mein poochon:)