Is there anybody here that married outside of their culture or language?

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Re: Is there anybody here that married outside of their culture or language?

@salaam2k14

Your significant other is right for you but isn’t of the culture or language you grew up in? But all the pieces fit right in the marriage that they even make the differences seem right.

When I look at genuinely happy couples, the crucial pieces just smoothly fit together and noone is forced or made to be a certain way for the relationship.

Plus, priorities change when we are in all these difference age groups.

In our 20s we have to marry within our culture, religion, clan and language so our parents will be happy so we can have 2 kids preferably one boy to continue the family name…blah blah blah

But when I look at desis in their 40s even 50s they don’t need to follow these rules. All they want is a companion with whom there is mutual happiness.

Nothing in the world really matters if your significant other is a Muslim and you guys have that rare thingy love.

All the pieces of the puzzle automatically find the right place.

I find the odds/differences more attractive and sexy then the similarities. I think similarities are boring.