Is there any female over here

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I’d hate it :chai:

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heres an interesting article:

Emotional infidelity is the new fad on the internet and is appropriately entitled “cyber cheating.” Many homes have one to two computers making it easy to carry on an emotional affair without the other partner ever knowing. It’s convenient, cheap and fun! A person can learn a lot about an internet stranger by communicating through a few emails, texts or chats, all without the embarrassment of meeting in person.

The following behavioral signs are the top 10 signs of emotional infidelity. If any of these ring a bell in regards to your relationship, perhaps you are not as close to your partner as you should be

  1. You have little physical contact. Partner is always too busy or tired.
  2. You have petty arguments.
  3. You feel like you don’t have anything in common any more.
  4. One of you is no longer attracted to the other
  5. Partner spends unusually long periods of time on cell phone or computer.
  6. Partner suddenly becomes hypercritical about your appearance.
  7. Partner becomes secretive or defensive when questioned about their behavior.
  8. Partner loses interest in relationship or family activities.
  9. Partner stays on computer very late at night after you have retired.
  10. Partner secures their computer in a locked area or with passwords you don’t have access to.i

if your relationship shows any of the above signs, it may be time to communicate with your partner to try to reconnect. If you don’t, this supposed casual “friendship” can quickly turn from cyber cheating into something more.

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I would be jealous..but it sort of depends on him too. Let's say if he is talking to a female co-worker online..and I suddenly show up in the room and he tries to hide it or do other shady things, then that would definitely piss me off.

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My sweetheart doesnt even have internet access and even if he does, he probably wouldnt know the concept of chatting. He is Pakistani, rural upbringing, very conservative - he doesnt expect me to have boys as friends, and i expect the same from him :-)

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:hehe:

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i'm not married but if i found my hubby chatting to random females online after i told him not to he would be in BIG TROUBLE. Seriously, that is just unacceptable. Why should he talk to other girls when i am his wife and he should be spending that time with me? If it was his mom or sister or someone though I would not mind.

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It’s great that they are coming up with new attempts to try to fix relationships that may be according them in danger. but seriously, the more i learn this stuff..the more I think that they should stop worrying so much. Many of these ten points are present in healthy marriages on daily basis. Like
9. Partner stays on computer very late at night after you have retired.

double-you-tee eff?

Maybe you are tired and sleepy and he isn’t and theres anything good on t.v…and so he goes on the computer…

I personally feel that the more they come up with this stuff..the more danger they are adding on to relationships. Like if someone who “thought” was in a healthy marriage reads up one of these theories of family if i may call it, and ends up relating to this stuff…may start thinking negatively…act negative, precieve things negatively…pass on the negativity to their partner…and the partner acts back in the behaviour you expect from them..self-fulfilling prophecy…

Beans.

Visiting Karachi
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by communicating with him. if a person can't communicate with their spouse openly and share their feelings, then why get married to them in the first place? just tell your husband you don't like it. and he should decrease the amount of time he spends talking to females online.

also, does this interfere with anything else that's important at home? does he do everything else a responsible, mature husband would do?

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ok - he talks to every gurl in his office -

every gurl is running after him

:hinnah: life

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thanks but NO THX!! its a gud thing he wants to learn somethin new rather than chattin with complete strangers with whom he has no interest of havin a relationship.