is that rite or wrong?

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Yes I m serious... whats your a/s/l?

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@SunMun you need to get a third party involved so that he will be a bit more serious and won't make stupid threats in front of someone else.

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he needs a good hearing and punch punch from you,and if he loves the kids that much..you can blackmail him through them! tell them to go to daddy again and again say haw hawww and ask him what hez doing,why hez doing,why hez not talking with mummy and to other girlz,annoy the guy thru your kids :D
drown his laptop,cut the net cable,throw away anything getting him near the internet:P
plan a vacation!weekend tripz!
ask kids to throw tantrums into taking them out every other evening!
and while he chatz,ask him to get some ghar ka samman,send him to get some thing important..like for the kids.serve dinner when he is chatting!put on some makeup or a new dress to show it off to him while hez chatting!distract him!
get creative with getting him away from his addiction :D

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^i dont think he will get destracted so easily, i agree with throwing his laptop or comp out n cutting off the connection sumhow. If he hurts u, thats wen u go to the police or get elders involved.
U knw why he is doing that to you, bcus ur allowing the situation by being scared of him or by not doing anything that will get him to fear loosing you or if not u then the kids. You must get sumone else involved if u dont feel lyk u can stand up to him alone. And if u dont wanna do any of that, then dont come on here and complain, just shut up n live with it. Just for god sake dont be scared of him, that makes him do it more.
Sorry if u dont agree with me, but ur story makes me sooo Arrgghhhhh, cus i dislyk the guy for wat he's doing but i also think sumwhere along the line its ur fault as well. U need to take sum drastic steps.