Is social check good or bad ?

In western society people believe in “Live and let live” as it is their OWN life and they can do whatever they want, but in Pakistan if your are seen in the street while talking to a girl other than your wife or sister, than alot of aunties of the “Muhalla” would inform the whole community about your probable affair with a girl who might be just a class fellow and wanted to borrow notes for exams.

And if she couldnt find anyone else for borrowing or returning the notes at night just before exams and also said a “thank you” with a smiling face, than both of you are part of a BIG scandal in the history of your village.

Does social check act as a good security to prevent a person from doing anything immoral or it makes life difficult for people who dont want anyone to interfere in their matters ?

Re: Is social check good or bad ?

all checks are good as long as they are made out for cash and backed up sufficient credit

Re: Is social check good or bad ?

social check, is an unspoken contract of whatis allowed to one , is allowed to everyone.
that is why laws get made. legal implications and consequences of bilateral and unilateral breaches of trust and safety for the life an property as well as collective conscience is so essential.
it is absolutely necessary in an Islamic society. the whole idea is based on mutual consultation and keeping the honor of what one's heritage is all about (hopefully good and fair things).