Re: Is she wrong?
No Mehnaz none of the sisters can move and take the responisibilty.
They have been through a hell of a time as a family and each of the sibling carries so much emotional baggage that it is affecting them after getting settled as well. They bicker on issues which can be dealt with easily hence they hardly talk to each other.
Her brother disapproves of her staying back and claims that she is after the money rather than looking after her mother. I know this girl very well and I know she has no such intentions. I feel mentally drained after counselling them, my father and I have spent hours with each of them and resolved matters before, but now I dont really have the energy nor the time to deal with it. At the moment, the brother keeps threatening her and accusing her of non-sense. She is not in a good state and I feel she is not safe with her brother. He is not a very nice person and can get up to anything.
Her hubby cannot move to Pakistan because he needs to support his family back home and he cannot earn much in Pakistan. He loves her very much and keeps saying, do what u think is right and don't leave your mother but I feel he will soon be fed up and sick of all this. I dont really want this to happen, I have been through each and every phase of their life with them and I know them very well. I know how things are and what they are leading to, my intuition and personal knowledge is alarming me about something bad.