Re: Is she serious…. Or telling me something???
TS i dont think your daughter is being unreasonable at all, well here :
* Must be below 30 (she is going to be 24 soon).
Well there are enough desi guys who are doing well at the age of 25/26
* She would not require to work, her career would be solely her prerogative.
I myself believe and i know enough guys who think a wife should only work because she wants and not because she needs to, i mean obviously her helping out makes it even better but if she doesnt want to there are enough guys making who are earning a decent living and that should not be a problem.
* Educated and established enough in life to maintain her lifestyle (not very lavish but, we have upper middle class lifestyle).
Well these 2 conditions are not at all unreasonable, i mean a lot of guys are making high 70s and low 80s and as she mentioned she wants to be in a joint family environment in that case they can enjoy a decent living, nothing extravagant but still comfortable
* Do not want to live alone, so must have extended family to live with.
That is one of the biggest pluses of your daughter, cuz this is one of the biggest issues faced by desi guys cuz on one end our desi society expects the guy to take care or atleast support his parents and on the other hand wives are dreaming of a separate dream place, so if she wants to live with an extended family trust me she is really going to be happy.
* Not overtly religious (moulvi) but still religious enough to respect and practice in moderate ways.
Well dat goes from person to person and i cannot comment on that.
* Of must be of good character. no drinking, smoking and not past baggage of relationship (she herself doesn’t carry such baggage).
Yeah this is a tough one, character well i cannot say much but smoking and drinking and ohh yeah past relationship baggage is an issue and there are very few guys who fulfill this condition, you will find one of these issues in majority of them if not all of these problems, atleast i can say i have all of these problems 
Khair TS goodluck and best wishes to your daughter, she indeed has very good and reasonable expectations and InshaAllah you will find someone she deserves, Aameen :k: