Re: Is she going to leave me?
if sumone leAves u dont worry just sAy "next"
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i mean dnt u think sumtimes....SHE DONT CARE ABOUT U......i dnt no how u cant figure that out
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You are just plain dumb silly boy.
She wants you to do things that he's doing for her.
So forget feeling sorry for yourself and start paying her as much attention as he's giving her.
Tell her you love her.
Buy flowers
txt her sweet things
waghera waghera
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LB I can see what you're trying to say, to save a relationship. But does it make sense for him to feed her behavior? Should he have to put up with that? Does someone who truly loves you make you feel like utter crap, that you have to make a desperate plea for help on Gup Shup? I don't think he should text her any sweet things. Just text her good bye. Cause this sounds like he's infatuated with her, not in love. True love doesn't hurt like that. It's not about head games and competition. He's worth more than that.
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Saima, true
But the guy is afraid of her leaving him
In that situation, if he wants her to stay then he'll have to do what the other guy is doing.
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- my second advice *
Bro first tell us how do you know that she likes him or the fact that she is comparing you? please provide an example so we can help you better
There is nothing worst that can break a healthy relationship than "shak" (doubt) .. its a disease.. maybe she is away from you and you are feeling lonely kinda.. or maybe you are just feeling down coz you are not there to show her and tell her every morning that you love her .. that guy (in your mind) is turnig her against you but it could be that she still believes in your love and will return to you no matter what.. she might be under some other sort of pressure.. (family?) .. she can't tell him that she loves you coz maybe her family doesn't know about it yet and she doesn't feel safe .. or maybe she doesn't wanna cause any problems while she is visiting there.. (i am assuming that she is in pak?)
give it a good thought.. if you love her keep loving her she will come back.. win your love.. don't just take it for granted!
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Ok, here’s a hypothetical situation. If a guy is infatuated with Pamela Anderson, should his girlfriend have to dye her hair blonde and get implants to keep him interested? No, she should be herself, sincere, loving. Just like the poster should accept the problem is not with him but with this girl who does not deserve him.
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^ In an ideal world no.
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i don't know . but kindly let me know whatever happens in the end :)
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She doesn’t sound like she respects you.
Well, that is if you’re not screwing up.
If you are, then LB is right. You need to figure out what it is that she wants and provide it to her. However, if its all material stuff with no emotional value, then she’s a grubby gold-digger. In which case, stick with her. :k:
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I’d have said to her that your departure is most welcome… :k:
PS: Jaan bachi, lakhon paai… 
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its darwinism my friend.survival of the fittest as we call it.she found someone whos more handsome and has more money than you,shes gonna go for him.there is not much you can do to stop her.if you found somebody better looking than her you'd probably do the same.lol.its life.
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I hope she does leave u, for ur own sake.
U don't need someone like that, or u'd spend the rest of ur life running to her every whim!
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[quote=The new COOLDUDE]
I love her more than anything, I know I can't love any girl ever more than how much I love her.
A guy that knows her for a week started telling her how much he "loves" her.The guy's better looking, rich and supposedly sincere(She knows he's a frat boy though who hasn't been to sincere to anyone in his life). She compares me to him, and is starting to hate my guts because I'm not like him. Yes, we've had some history, we've had some major fights, but every incident has made me love her more and made me want to be with her. Urghhh.. am I trying to hold onto something that I can't?.. Is she really going to leave me?QUOTE
If she is too shallow....and does not like you for who you are...and is comparing you to others then you are better off without her. You may not realise it now...but give yourself time and you will.
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she dsnt love u!!...seriouslyy m a gulr i noooo
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if she loves u shell stay wid u
looks and money wont matter to her if sehs already chosen u :)
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but shes alredy judging him!...so looks do matter to her...dnt u think...n also b4 she leaves u leave her!
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As a girl, I think you should just be upfront with her. Tell her all this. We girls have issues too, we think we "should" be/do certain things. And things get frustrating when things dont work that way. When we unexpectedly fall for someone else. Sometimes feelings are so strong that we try and ruin the relationship etc etc etc.
There are a multitude of reasons, no excuses. Talk to her. Thats the only answer. And then after that - knowing the specifics of the situation - do what YOU think best. Advice from strangers is all good and well. But its easy for us. We arent heart over heels with this lovely.
Take care.
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soo wht r u goin to do