Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

[Ashy2010]

Re: Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

@ZareenKhan

Unfortunately you are mistaken my friend :). Yes the situation/circumstances do play a part but believe me the dheet ones will be dheet no matter how good you treat them and even if you put them on a pedestal.

Basically, you are trying to say that she belonged to a humble background and now she has a comparitively luxury life so she has eaisly and happily adjusted to it. But i would disagree with you cuz no matter what if you are a good person you are going to make it work or atleast do your part honestly even if you get married into a family of lower status than you. And same way no matter how much of a better life your new family is giving you, if you are just not the type to make it work you would find 101 issues with it.

But what about the second bahu? Won’t second bahu have more difficulty in adjusting to this family since this first bahu has already established standards and since she’s already the favourite of this family? Didn’t first bahu get a very very easy susraal which the second bahu will not have since there is already a bahu to whom this second bahu will be constantly compared?