Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

[Ashy2010]

Re: Is she a good bahu or its just that she got an easy pitch to play on?

@jaan_leva

No… the NAND is missing. She gets along with the mother in law because she has respect for her and maybe they have similar likes and dislikes but with nand, you add different type of dynamics to the situation. Bahu wouldn’t have as much respect for the nand as she does for MIL and same goes for the nand and that creates friction.

hmmm good point. And she also didn’t have any SIL. This means, the situation does affect a girl’s behaviour in her susraal. If there’s no nand, she can be a good bahu otherwise no.