Re: Is "Rasam-e-Hina" allowed in Islam ?
is this not vulgarity when girls n boys both dance and with half sleeves dressed up girls with no dupattas. it all happens only on mehndi rasm.
about biddah where it is said to cross the limits of islam when rasm starts and first woman should b married. coz a widow or anyother women who dont have a child cannot starts the rasm.
the presence of Prophet (PBUH) i**n the wedding where girls **use to sing wedding songs and etc.those were lill kids not young girls. those songs were nasheeds not like todays romantic songs.
Dars-e Quran is Dars abt Quran..that what Quran actually says.. not reading like a Rattu Tota.
so u mean Rasm-e hina make sense on this occasion? the intion is to get-to-gather of all relatives...so what s wrong if all ppl r here and they just spend their time with the Teachings of Quran in the shade of Angels and pray for best future of the bride or groom, instead of wasting their time by listening of music and watching almost nude girls while dancing.
In those days, and even 50 / 60 years ago, the marriage age for boys was 16-18 and for girls it was 12-14.
Now a days things are different, there are lots of "reforms" which have alter the marriage age. coming back to ur statement, In todays marriage, have u seen Married women, dancing ( yes some of them sing) its only the unmarried who take part in these activities, again i also consider Joint session as a bad thing and never advocted one. but in a scenario where girls are together and they are singing and dancing does not make it vulguar by any logic.
If read by comments which u have quoted, i have used a term called, within the limits of Islam, dancing with nude girls ( bachelor party stuff) is not adviseable nor considered moral. Now nude dancing and drinking are all time haram things, they will remain haram in every situation. One should condemn these acts and not the whole concept.
Tommorrow ( i think) is Eid-e-Milad-un-nabi ( a biddat, as it is considered as part of Islam) in Pakistan, there will be celebrations, some will dance on songs and others will steel the electricity, block the roads and have Mehfil-e-naat. are these acts advisable under Islam, These acts have blessings of all molanas and act-less muslims, may i know y?
Islam is all about Balancing things, Islam have prohibted from extremism in any kind, but the muslims in general and Pakistanis in Particular are exterimist by nature and education. this thread is an example.