Is Pakistani culture dominated by Hindu religion?

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Re: Is Pakistani culture dominated by Hindu religion?

@honeybeez

I did not mean they should be banned. I said its probably a way to prevent a childless woman from unnecessary mental torture. Please dont read in between the lines.

Let me give you my own example…I have 2 healthy kids by god’s grace, but last yr I conceived triplets by chance. It was definitely not planned. But to my bad fate, I lost my pregnancy after 21 weeks. That was painful and** it took me more than 4 months to just come to terms that I am not to be blamed for the loss. **It was just god’s wish. During these 4 months, I just dreaded any sort of invitations from anyone. I did not want to be pitied nor advised by anyone. I just wanted to be spared from everything and let things come to normal by itself.

Now, this can be thought of in 2 ways - 1) I did not want to be troubled. 2) I wanted other mothers-to-be to be spared from the fear of losing a pregnancy especially after crossing 50% of the gestation.

People considering barren women as inauspicious is superstitious. There is no religious backing to it. But haven’t we all been taught to avoid bringing unnecessary distress to others?

First sorry to hear about your loss. May you get something much better in return.

Now, if someone is rich and has expensive car or a nice big house, that person should not give ride to someone who is not so rich or invite to his/her home someone who has small house, … just to spare other person from depression or jealousy?

Haven’t we all been taught to avoid bringing unnecessary distress to others?

Come one admit it, you have very unusual argument and just trying to support that there are people who consider childlessness as a curse and are mean to these women not even letting them come close to pregnant women or hold a newborn baby.

I a not sure why 1- you thought you would be blamed for the unfortunate loss, 2- would be in trouble, 3- wanted other mothers to be (expectant mothers) to be spared from fear of losing a pregnancy.

I am sorry, all of those thoughts are false.