Farrah, methi dana is pretty strong and it has a garam effect. Kalonji has a garam effect. Most oils already have vitamin E in them anyway. The hair fall could even be from an excess of vitamin E (you’re putting additional vit E in there) And castor oil is so thick that it easily pull out your hair. Maybe you need to change the ingredients…take a couple of things out and keep it more simple.
You said that the oil feels like a lot on your head. Usually I’m able to get the oil out with one washing. So, don’t put that much oil on your scalp. You don’t need to put it on every square inch of your head. Once you start massaging…your fingertips will spread the oil around on your scalp…so you don’t need much to begin with. Keep the oil on for an hour. Get a good clarifying shampoo. Clarifying shampoos are designed to rid your hair of oil and other build-up. And I think that if you’re oiling your hair…you don’t need conditioner. Conditioner can weigh hair down and cause it to fall. Your oil servers the purpose of conditioning the hair.
I use Suave Clarifying shampoo. It works AH. It’s not pricey, it’s gentle, it gets the oil out, comes in a big bottle and lasts me a while.