i oftenly heard from so many aunties that girls should have kid imedilately after wedding…even heard thiese thing from girsl too…(bacha ane se susraal main jagah strong hojati hai,mian bache ki wajah se phansa rehta hai,mian biwi ka rishta pakka hota hai,mian k idher uder jane k chances kam hojate hain bache ki wajah se)
y use kid as a weapon againt husband and inlaws…?
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these aunties are pathetic. Kids are blessing and not weapon.
I have seen couple who lived happily for more than 40 years without kids (wife died after almost 40 years) ...and I have seen divorces b/w couples with 3-4 kids too ....
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and whan mian behave bedly you beet him with kid slep slep hawww
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Ive heard that once you have a child it makes the marriage more solid in the sense that its harder for both partners to leave each other for the sake of the children. And i kind of agree with that. people say alot of things in the heat of the moment and make stupid decisions. A certain argument at home may cause alot of bitter feelings towards both, but instead of automatically thinking divorce they have to stick it out for the sake of the children
This however is not the case all the time. If there are regular arguments and husband and wife genuinely cant get along or if tempers flare soo much to the extent of domestic abuse then the best thing to do is to split for the sake of the children.
I dont think having a child makes your place any stronger then it already is when your at your inlaws.. I dont see how this actually works. What I do believe though is that it does bring a husband and wife closer together and bond.
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Hit The aunties..
my bestfriend is going through a divorce wid a physco after going through so much..n the reason her divorce and the situation is so complicated is cuz these STUPID IDIOT ULLU KI PATHI aunties forced her to have a kid…YES “”““forced””" her to have a kid n her husband will realise his responsibility n stop acting like a total jerk…apparently not n now those aunties say bachey ke liye ruk jao n seh lo tht he is a drugie, a gambler. porn addict n domestic abuser!!!
so…
to the aunties..
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CG lolzzz
aaj kafi gussa aa raha hy, sab theek hy na?
Well sadi bro :k:
Shukar ada karo k yeh blessings mili hain
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You hear a lot of pathetic things from "few" aunties. One of these.
The boy was strongly against a marraige proposal but rishta wali aunty convinced the parents that "2-3 ratooN key baad larka set ho jaye ga". And after 2-3 nights it was setting but divorce.
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I do not think we can call them weapon, but they are important tool in the family unity.
After 27 years of married life, i could say there were many instances when one feel like walking away, but presence of the kids itself good enough for me to stop any stupid decision. Whenever we have quarrels seeing horror on children's face was enough for me to forget everything and try to be a good boy.
It was arrange marriage, there is nothing common between us, (till today we are entirely different animals), but despite our different personalities and she compromised more then me (she is better wife then me as husband).
But i would never able to write this if we do not have cement (kids) to strengthen our relationship.