Aaze
January 11, 2015, 4:51pm
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Re: Is it wrong to wait for love?
I’ve experienced love and that beautiful kind of love, care, and attraction. How do I forget it. I’m meeting all these men for the sake of marriage, I see them as friends but that love in their eyes isn’t there nor do i feel it when i meet with them. I admit i’m not in my early 20s anymore but I don’t want to succumb to desperation because if that is the case of me just having the married label on me, then I would prefer not to get married. It’s just the fear of never finding love and the fear of never having that beautiful kind of feeling of knowing this person is the one.
I see it in other couples.
Depends what kind of love you’re waiting for. If you expect him to see you, and then jump start a bollywood song (let’s say Mareez-E-Ishq, cause I’m liking that one these days
Your post made me wonder whether you truly are over the first experience you had with love - it doesn’t sound so. Are you?
I have the same reservation as you now. I like a girl and she likes me and I think we are in a little bit of love which can grow exponentially if we work (mostly I) work towards it. But I am not sure if love is enough to make the relationship work. **We have different religions and reading from posts here about interfaith, most of the marriages didn’t work out. ****So I am kinda on edge to move forward because there will be no going back. **If I get over this, then I feel afraid if I ever am going to find someone that has the same connection and love with me as her? What if I can’t? This scares me so I don’t know.
But don’t worry, you will find someone ..otherwise being single is not the end of the world
Don’t be a chicken now :halo:
) - Then yeah it’s stupid.