Is it wrong to wait for love?

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Re: Is it wrong to wait for love?

@Pisiform

I was dumped on height even though I am 5’9. I didn’t like the girl anyway because she had nothing to offer - no high education, angry face etc but I kept the conversation civil in the hopes that it will die of eventually when I respond less and less instead of telling her straight off which might come as awkward. But she didn’t even let it get to that. She dumped me with a text over my height

This guy said he was 5’ 7" on his profile and i’m pretty short 5’4" but with my 1 1/2 inch heeled boots I was a bit taller than him and felt really awkward and I was thinking he really saw the difference magnified too. Plus for our first meeting he was dressed like a farm hand as in old worn out jeans and a worn out shirt and I was really dressed up so I would feel comfortable and confident with the way I looked. When we decided to meet, I did say that I was still not sure about anything yet and he did comfort me by saying that we should both see this as a friendship meeting. he felt all these sparks after just 2 hours of conversation over dinner and said I was more beautiful than my pics which was sweet but all the sparks he saw, unfortunately as much as I wanted to experience them too, I didn’t feel them. Feel like total crap.

@Pisiform

I have the same reservation as you now. I like a girl and she likes me and I think we are in a little bit of love which can grow exponentially if we work (mostly I) work towards it. But I am not sure if love is enough to make the relationship work. We have different religions and reading from posts here about interfaith, most of the marriages didn’t work out. So I am kinda on edge to move forward because there will be no going back. If I get over this, then I feel afraid if I ever am going to find someone that has the same connection and love with me as her? What if I can’t? This scares me so I don’t know.

But don’t worry, you will find someone ..otherwise being single is not the end of the world

Well it’s comforting that i’m not the only one in this state.

Imagine if we were married right now to people that are so wrong for us and having all these questions in our minds. That’s even worse. I’d rather be single. I want a life time connection, attraction, love that I see in other couples.