ok so say you are a girl, right. and you happen to fall in love with this guy, who according to you is very nice and very sweet and everything, he may not be cute, but you still love him, and he also wants to marry you. the only problem is that he is not a muslim, and you are a muslim girl. you are ashamed and embarrased to tell your friends and other people about this guy, just because he is from another religion.
my question is, is this relationship worth it? i mean what is the point of having a boyfriend or a close personal relationship when you can’t even share it with your close personal friends and your family?
and just to let everyone know…this is not about me!!!
Well, the answer is kinda obvious. When you (the fictional 'you', not you, you) are so sensitive about being a muslim girl and all that, then who advised you to go and fall in love with a non-muslim. Kissi hakeem ne mashwara diya tha kiya? Aqal ke nakhun lainay chahiyay.. aur woh bhi waqt se pehlay.
but according to this girl, you can't but help fall in love (which i think is just bakwas. banday ko kamazkam apni feelings par to control hona chahiyay, especially something as sensitive as "love"). but she still does not want to tell anyone about it. i mean how stupid is that?!?!?!
hmm well from what i hear, he said that he was going to convert in the beginning, but now he changed his mind and said that he loves his religion too much, so he may not convert. so masla not hal.
I guess since Khumar has gotten her answer, I should close the thread? to save people's time from clicking on it and reading the conversation and then find out oh, the problem has already been adressed.