Is it unethical

to talk in your mother tongue with another person (knowing your mother tongue), when surrounding people don’t know your mother tongue?

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no its not.

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But people who don't know the language find it awkward and irritating, when two persons talk in a language unknown to them.

Will you watch a Punjabi channel in the presence of your Sindhi friend, who does not know Punjabi?

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off course. many pathans speak pashto in front of many punjabi we dont care. its some secret talk.

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This is not ethical and a hadith about whispering in presence of third person may cover this as well.

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Don't you get irritated when this is done in work place.

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i dont know about the ethical bit but i think its not nice.....because the other person always gets the wrong vibe that you maybe talking about them.

i personally feel uncomfortable if two other people are talking in their own language which i do not understand and i have to sit amongst them.

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It is bad manners to do so in certain places like workplaces for example.

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If folks are discussing project specific topics it isxnot right. But if they are discussing a topic that has nothing to do with my work, more power to them. In fact my pet peeved is people carrying on loud conversations. In those instances I wish it were in a language I don't understand. Less distraction.

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I absolutely agree with this. It's certainly very rude. If you are in company, you must always include everyone in it. It's bad in the same way, whispering is, i.e. the other people may think you are saying something against them etc.

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I often can't help it.

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^ Well I admit, sometimes I have been guilty of the very same thing too. Though I know it's very rude, but sometimes you just cannot help breaking out in your own mother tongue.

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tfum sfab efik nfumbfer kfe gfadhfay hfo

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inded, it IS! it's rude...people unnecessarily think you two are talking about them ... it's rude 100%

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But then when i realise it, i often explain what i was talking about.

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:hmmm:

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Kiftni nfi gfandafi bfat hfay.

Jfo kefh tfa hfa khfudi hfo tfa hfay :snooty:

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efigzafactfly :stuck_out_tongue:

Unethical no, but it is definitely rude.