Is it strange?

[blessed2006]

Re: Is it strange?

@Sara516

Is it really strange or unusual for couples to do things separately?

If the husbnad or wife isn’t social by nature, is it odd for the other to go to events alone/with friends (well anyone but teh spouse)?

My husband and I are like that. We go out together and we spend time together…but he’s just not into hanging out with other couples or going to weddings/parties etc. He’s always been like that. However he doesn’t force me to not meet people either, and he is perfectly okay with me going anywhere at all.

It’s taken some time but I’m content with the way things are. I remember earlier on though wheN I wanted him to accompany me to ppls houses and stuff…which he did..but a few bad experiences made me realize it wasn’t right to force him to do something he wasn’t comfortable with.

But some of those times whenever I would meet people alone they were kinda weird about it, I wouldn’t say they were deliberately being rude but they acted in such a way that i felt very unwelcome and now I completely avoid those kind of people. and there were still others who said I should “change him.” (Um I don’t necessarily agree with that but ok).

So yeah that’s been my experience! I have nothing against couples who do everything together but I certainly didn’t appreciate comments about my husbands absence…Is it really that bad???

no its not strange nor its bad to do different things. since everybody has their own way of doing things.