Is it REALLY that hard???

are they? I think there is a small set of rules which is clear.
there are others that are based on hearsay and opinions.
I am not cool with turning black or white into gray
but not cool with turning gray or absent into black or white

while the intentions of some may be right, their opinions and views do not become divine law and should not be treated that way.

example I use are things like is lobster or crab allowed, then u quickly would get into schools of thought…not very clear

then we have statements like stoning as punishment for adultery, but is it? where?

there are many gray areas