Agreed! Forget a 30 minute salon trip, I have been on several “girls trips/vacays” out of town and my husband has never balked at taking care of the kids alone for 3-4 days (and vice versa, I don’t nag and pout when he wants to take a guys trip somewhere with his pals)
When the twins were 2, and our oldest 4, I had to go KHI alone, as my father was in his last days, and darling hubby took his 6 weeks of vacation time and stayed home with the kids so that I could go take care of my dad! So I would say let’s not label all dads in the same category…REAL men don’t shy away from diaper duty/parenting their kids…alhamdullilah I am lucky enough to have found one who “gets it” lol!!!