Is it Okay

Gina · March 8, 2009, 6:45pm

Immediate friends and family is who u should turn to for real advice.. they'd know better then any other stranger on a public forum. I find it strange when ppl share their personal lives with strangers BUT they can't approach the people involved/concerned.

Straight_up · March 8, 2009, 6:57pm

Yeah so what if I am?

Hmmm so public forum should be limited to useless talks to kill time, gotcha.

Jaanwar · March 8, 2009, 7:28pm

And being defiant on top of it Its just sad how people would attack one group just for the sake of it.

Straight_up · March 8, 2009, 7:37pm

Jaanwar :aq:

Gina · March 8, 2009, 7:42pm

Religion, Current Affairs, Computers, Rangon Ke Shehr, Wedding.. Shor Sharaba.. the only useless/harmless banter is on Cafe. Didn’t really get me.. so had to clarify.

It is ok to speak about general issues.. but pouring u’re heart out to millions of complete strangers and seeking advice is unheard of..when u have family and friends that cud guide u best.

Straight_up · March 8, 2009, 8:06pm

That's an assumption. :)

Gina · March 8, 2009, 8:14pm

sigh do u trust the views of gupshup members over u're own family and friends? :)

Monk · March 9, 2009, 3:45am

I kind of have to agree and disagree at same time. On GS we come with made up names so chance of some one finding who we are very small.

How ever once I had facebook account and I had 200+ friends list.
Now my home boy kept posting on my wall stuff like
1-my families name.
2-my where abouts
3-some time my emotional state too.

hmmmm that scared me cold.

now my nephews come on orkuct with real name ad where abouts, I told them not too. But I guess ppl in non western country don't pay attention that how dangrious it could be.

Just my 2 cents. :)

Bonbonniere · March 9, 2009, 3:50am

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^ How dangerous could it be? Mujhe samaj nahin arahi...its only the internet...call the police if you have any trouble.

Monk · March 9, 2009, 3:54am

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Well what is the pint having real name on FaceBook.
in canada I guy got his head chopped off, murdered took all info from facebook.
About hmmmm 6-7 month ago

Bonbonniere · March 9, 2009, 3:56am

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I have my real name on facebook...you are scaring me now!

Monk · March 9, 2009, 4:00am

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well do you have ppl you dont really know???
well I will not do that in million years, nor I would let my family members do it. period!!!

Bonbonniere · March 9, 2009, 4:00am

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Okay, Im taking my name off of Facebook…

Niksik · March 9, 2009, 4:02am

First of all, that girl is a bit strange to knowingly want to get involved with a married man when there is no shortage of unmarried guys out there. That is clearly an issue you might want to look at. Either she’s watching too many movies and wants to do something thrilling, or she naturally gets attracted to married men for whatever reason (we’ve had a thread on that before too) or she is so deeply and madly in love with you that she doesn’t mind being a second wife.

Or, maybe she just wants to be your friend or sister :halo:

Or maybe you just opened this thread for time pass, so here we are passing our time

Monk · March 9, 2009, 4:03am

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you know BB how we dont even tell any one our last names to strangers?? and DOB only to our work place.
And here any one google you name and he can pretty much tell every thing about you.

Desi_BeauTii · March 9, 2009, 4:05am

lol

Straight_up · March 9, 2009, 6:59pm

Dude, I remember this incident. It took place on Coach Canada. :(off to edit Facebook profile

pakifairy · March 9, 2009, 7:23pm

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only if you allow your wife to do the same.

Iconoclast · March 9, 2009, 7:24pm

which one was that incident?

pakifairy · March 9, 2009, 7:24pm

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AND ALSO why wouldnt you ask your wife how she feels and all this ****. of course its wrong, wrong wrong wrong wrong let alone asking a GS forum im so sad for your wife and your kids.