Re: Is it okay to have an affair if your spouse doesnt make you happy?
Is he interested in kids ? You can teach you kids to be better human without cheating on him and your kids. Remember you will not be cheating on your husband , you will be cheating on your kids too.
No it is not fair for you to be miserable for rest of your life. You can end it . How will you be happy by cheating , you will live in guilt , in shame and with constant fear of getting caught ?
Also the guy you will be cheating with will have no respect for you. If he had respect for you , cared about you , would help you get out of this situation and give you permanent peace of mind , not few minutes of company and send you back to hell of a home.
How can kids find their peace in a home where dad gives no love to them and their mother.