Re: is it ok to slap a gay guy in coporate office?
You have to standup for yourself brother. He is bothering you , your productivity might get hurt . He seems to be out of his mind by not mending his ways. He needs to be shown the door now since you have already used all the polite methods. But be very careful about the proofs you have. If you do not have solid proofs , your talk to HR might backfire and he might become more hostile against you. If you have proof , you can tell him that you have proof of his advances and if he does not leave you alone you will report him to HR , that might stop him in his tracks and you might be saved from the embarrassment of talking to HR . I know in our societies it is so difficult to talk about or complain about these kind of things , people will blame the victim in many cases if the aggressor is a bully.