Re: Is it ok to divorce or get one?
Divorce is Allah (SWT) least most favorable thing. The spark won't always be there, every now and then you or your spouse should do something different to bring that spark back. Also it could just mean your love has a whole new meaning at a different level now. It's not all about the physical attraction, or the excitement when you guys were newly married or had your first child etc. It's more about being there for one another, caring for one another, doing little things for each other. For example, wife wants to go to a party to enjoy without having to run after the kids, she asks hubby dearest to watch them for her, and he agrees. That right there is love.
Knowing that at the end of the day, no matter how you look, how you are, your spouse will still love and accept you.