So I hav this confusion , I have heard from a lot of married ppl wid kids that the day they stopped loving their spouses or wudnt feel the spark or connection , they wud separate, or get divorced without much caring abt kids b/c even if its a bad marriage kids wud suffer, i had this naive imagination before that this kind of behavior suits goras but not desis but in past few years i hav heard these kind of stuff coming from very desi background, ur opinions appreciated.
That's because desis have become stupid and like to live their lives like bollywood films or dramas. These are all qiyamat ki nishaanian. On the other hand, people in the west have become more family oriented and work hard at keeping their marriages intact.
Big generalization I know...but look around you and see how many failed marriages you see...marriages that didn't last even a year. Yes, I know real problems happen but these days you see people getting divorced because they got bored.