Pliz share your thoughts…
Allah (SWT) words: Surah An-Nisa, Verse 34.
Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allah and to their husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allah orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.). As to those women on whose part you see illconduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great.
I am of an opinion that One's Iman has to be very strong to exercise this right.
[This message has been edited by Musalman (edited November 21, 2000).]
musalman. i think you forgot to read the post. its not about men beating women, but the other way round..
strictly speaking, from what i remember reading, the girl shouldn’t beat her husband, cuz she might get hurt if the husband decides to beat her up instead.
but if the wife is bigger/stronger than the husband, all the more power to her
I know husband can beat his wife for Adultry, but I do not know if wife can beatup her husband. Obviously she can file Khula if she wants.
OK..let me put my question differently...
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What recourse Islam suggests to a woman who finds out that her Husband is having an extra-marital affair.
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[This message has been edited by Timepass (edited November 21, 2000).]
i think .. should bout it with her husband.. n tell him not to do that kinda stuff coz its against our religion etc.... huh hittin ?! yeh husband'll like beat u back up !!!
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timepass if u are a guy:
timepass best way to avoid beating from ur wife is to stop having sex with other women..doesnt matter what islam says about this..its just not accepted anywhere
timepass if u are a gal:
dump the sucker!!
[This message has been edited by Sherazz (edited November 21, 2000).]
hhahhahah… good idea !
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dump him n look for another one
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thats my philosophy sadia ji
tu nahi to koi aur sahi, woh nahi to koi aur sahi
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no one is worth the trouble
lol..
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hahah sahee kaha.. tu nahee to koi aur sahee.. rather.. tumharay saath rehtay rehtay bore ho gai.. ab koi aur chaheye.. *jking
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but chakker yeh hai k mere say to kisi ka dil bhar hi nahi sakta na
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surat aur seerat dono day ker iss duniya main bhayja hai
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total package yaar total package
If it can be proved...
then the man dies..
punishment for fornication (before marraige or divorced) = 80 lashes.
punishment for adultery (while married) = death.
hahahahah.. acha kher meray har cheez say doosray din hi dil bhar jata hay…
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