my fiance is living in another country, so basically v r in long distance from few days v both were busy today I called him n was just talkin randomly he said if i were a sensitive kinda guy u would b in hugeee trouble inshort u ll b annoyed I was like nahh in funny way n he also said with girls I m very smooth talker v easy for me idk I didn’t like this detail I mean theek ha if u r good at it but y r u telling me about it
well I just ignore it
am I rite if i think he shouldn’t say it or I m just tryin to fuss about nothin
just thinkin not big deal thou
First, he is not your fiance. He is your husband. Just because you aren't living with him, it doesn't change what your true relationship with him is.
Second, he is just telling you something about himself. Again, you're looking for hidden meanings in something that has no hidden meaning. If someone is set to find double meanings then they can find it in even a grain of sand. All you are doing is agonizing yourself over that is just nothing. Nothing at all! In the future your husband will be telling you a lot many more things about himself, his past, his thinkings, and his future plans. Are you going to get upset at every single thing he says? What kind of life would that be with you getting upset at everything. You have to learn, and quickly at that too, about taking things at their face value, and accepting the silly little things as what they are...silly little things.
First, he is not your fiance. He is your husband. Just because you aren't living with him, it doesn't change what your true relationship with him is.
Second, he is just telling you something about himself. Again, you're looking for hidden meanings in something that has no hidden meaning. If someone is set to find double meanings then they can find it in even a grain of sand. All you are doing is agonizing yourself over that is just nothing. Nothing at all! In the future your husband will be telling you a lot many more things about himself, his past, his thinkings, and his future plans. Are you going to get upset at every single thing he says? What kind of life would that be with you getting upset at everything. You have to learn, and quickly at that too, about taking things at their face value, and accepting the silly little things as what they are...silly little things.
not husband, he is my fiance :s
n Thnx for takin time out to give ur advice :)
I don't think everyone would take it very lightly if the girl was bragging about how easy she finds wrapping guys around her finger (practically the same thing the guy was implying). It could just be his way of being funny, or one of the other posters was right, to show u how in demand he is.
I don't think everyone would take it very lightly if the girl was bragging about how easy she finds wrapping guys around her finger (practically the same thing the guy was implying). It could just be his way of being funny, or one of the other posters was right, to show u how in demand he is.
Way to turn this thread into Battle of Sexes!! Try and answer OP's question. Or is this your way of getting through to her?
^I think I did answer her question. She wants to know what to make of it if her fiancé said this. And I said that he could just be kidding or it could be that he wants to make it obvious how in demand he is.
Btw I made it battle of the sexes because I too have been in a situation similar to that of the OPs. And in that case I felt my then fiancé (now husband) was easy with dishing it out (jokes about him being popular with girls) but too sensitive if I made similar jokes. To be fair he was quite a shy person and never reciprocated flirting or light banter but girls somehow felt comfortable and gravitated towards him. And he later admitted that he was slightly portraying himself as being in demand (although none of what he told me was untrue, as in eager relatives who wanted their daughters to be hitched with him) and then he also joked about how it had worked (as in me thinking he's in demand made him more valuable).
So in my post that's where I was coming from and not necessarily wanting it to be battle if the sexes.
