Is it normal...

Lifestyle Relationships
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So, one of my closest friends, she is engaged with this guy to get married with. But the thing which causes concerns to her is that, if ever things go wrong between them or whenever there’s any conflicts between them, no matter who would be responsible for that, this guy has a habit of going into solitude, like, he would cut off all the contacts with her, not meeting,not talking on the phone,etc for a couple of days or so. So is it normal? Or is it really something to be concerned about?

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Re: Is it normal...

abnormal....there is something wrong with the guy he is not good at dealing with situations he does not like. But that is just one trait of his , may be he is very nice in all other aspects.

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Re: Is it normal...

Before breaking the engagement, ask her to try something. Next time he does it again, don't initiate at all in developing communications with him. Leave him on his own, and observe. Check, for how long does he maintain this kind of behavior. Is he willing to come back to normal soon and initiate communication** this** time ?!? If so in a short time, problem solvable after marriage inshaAllah. If not, hard luck for him.

p.s. If it was her fault this time, then she should be flexible in giving him extra time to recover, otherwise not.

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Re: Is it normal...

I guess you are right... its a good test of him...

coz if he has this habbit then it is a serious problem she will spend her life making up things for him even when he is at fault... so better observe and have a talk with him...

i wouldn't say just break up with him but just be wise and try to remediate before you go to an extreme

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Re: Is it normal...

He is just learning to be 'good', timid husband.

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Re: Is it normal…

Really!? Through such a way!? :khums: