Re: Is it Normal?
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I don’t see anything wrong with what he said, he is being realistic. If you feel pressured and depressed just thinking about it, think of him, he HAS that pressure to support you and I am sure there are other things on his plate and other people expecting things from him also.
I am sure he could have said it in a nicer way but thats another issue.
I guess I don’t really get your dilemma.