Re: Is it Normal?
He's not saying you HAVE to work, he's saying that in order for you to have all the things you want, you will need a second income. I don't know what you said that prompted it or what his tone was, so it's hard to tell if he's being unfair, but the thought itself seems reasonable.
Do you already have children? Are you settled in the US? UK? Where?
I don't think you should worry about working with a headcovering. Many women do without any trouble at all. I actually don't know anyone who's had trouble. People may be curious, you may need to answer questions, but I don't think there's any problem in that. Afterall, by wearing hijab you highlight your status as a Muslim woman and take pride in it. Isn't it good for people to ask questions?