is it normal .. guyzz

for a pakistani guy living in the west to talk too openly about things when just you n him r talking (like as in it makes u feel sort of uncomfortable) or not?

Re: is it normal .. guyzz

maybe. what's the topic? and the relationship?

Re: is it normal .. guyzz

u shd tel him when u r nt comfortable thts all end of the story …:chai:

Re: is it normal .. guyzz

Or stop being a prude. One or the other.

Re: is it normal .. guyzz

umm well if he's your fiance then no i personally don't think it's too much but if you aren't comfortable the first step to a good relationship is to be totally honest with him and tell him that you would like to take it slow at first :-)

Re: is it normal .. guyzz

but som guyz ver lik too far too early ... ths case would b somthg similar to tht :D

Re: is it normal .. guyzz

what's "ver"?

Re: is it normal .. guyzz

ver = were :smack:

Re: is it normal .. guyzz

sorry i’m not much of a cellphone texter either so i don’t understand texting lingo either :hehe:

anyways, all i’m saying is it depends on the thread starter’s personality too, if she wouldn’t like it if he went too fast she should tell him.

Re: is it normal .. guyzz

He is pakistani...he knows the culture by default and is aware of what he is blurting out. That being said, there is no excuse for saying anything inappropriate...none whatsoever.

Tell him - openly.

Re: is it normal .. guyzz

I knw wht u mean …

se shd find som slow freak :smiley:

Re: is it normal .. guyzz

Depends on topic and relationship b/w guy and girl but I can tell you one thing.

Smart and reasonable guys can figure out that girl is feeling uncomfortable and they stop talking on the topic making girl uncomfortable.