Is it necessary to get married ?

[Sannan]

Is it necessary to get married and have children ?

Bcoz i’ve seen if a person not getting marrying every one teasing him to get marry (I’m the victim) and after marriage another question that when u r having baby? (one of my friend facing this problem)
So Isn’t it good not to get married and stay away from quarrel of wife, MIL, BIL, SIL

[hareem01]

Re: Is it necessary to get married ?

no it's not necessary. you can stay virgin for your whole life.

[spider_web]

Trust me marriage screw u up .....its no harm being single

[Sannan]

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@hareem01

no it’s not necessary. you can stay virgin for your whole life.

I like the term of bachelor

@spider_web

Trust me marriage screw u up …its no harm being single

I think the same.

[Eshal_Raza]

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It is not necessary to get married. Being single you have all the independence, this is what i personally think irrespective of the fact that how cooperative your spouse can be and your ghar jannat ka namoona!
On the other hand, i have always heard that for a female getting the ‘tag’ is very important for it gives the ‘security’ ----> like seriously..

[Shanum]

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yes u can stay away from getting married so that you will be away from MIL's Chik Chik as well ... :)

[Desii_Fly_Chick]

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its nott necessary .. m sure ppl cun liv on there own .. without a partner n kids

[Sannan]

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@Eshal_Raza

It is not necessary to get married. Being single you have all the independence, this is what i personally think irrespective of the fact that how cooperative your spouse can be and your ghar jannat ka namoona!
On the other hand, i have always heard that for a female getting the ‘tag’ is very important for it gives the ‘security’ ----> like seriously..

Thanks God I’m not a female

@Shanum

yes u can stay away from getting married so that you will be away from MIL’s Chik Chik as well …

yup i heard a lot abt it

@RabZZZ

its nott necessary .. m sure ppl cun liv on there own .. without a partner n kids

very wise comment and i was not expecting it from u …

[goodnews]

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Zarori tu nahi per dill kerta hai he raik ka to getting married;-))

[pinkyy]

Re: Is it necessary to get married ?

I think everyone thinks that when they are young that why is it necessary to get married, but I think once you reach the age of 30 or above, and once you see almost all of your friends being married/engaged, you too would feel like getting married! :)

[Sannan]

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@goodnews

Zarori tu nahi per dill kerta hai he raik ka to getting married**;-))**

yah raik kia hay

@pinkyy

I think everyone thinks that when they are young that why is it necessary to get married, but I think once you reach the age of 30 or above, and once you see almost all of your friends being married/engaged, you too would feel like getting married!

My most of age fellows are still bachelor so i think i’m safe for some years

[Eshal_Raza]

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@Sannan

Thanks God I’m not a female

Main kaun sa hun

[jiia]

Re: Is it necessary to get married ?

JANAZAH haraam hi:wub:

MAR GAE MARDUD ,KHATAM NA DARUD:cb:

@Sannan

Is it necessary to get married and have children ?

Bcoz i’ve seen if a person not getting marrying every one teasing him to get marry (I’m the victim) and after marriage another question that when u r having baby? (one of my friend facing this problem)
So Isn’t it good not to get married and stay away from quarrel of wife, MIL, BIL, SIL

[KKF]

Re: Is it necessary to get married ?

**shaadii na karoge to yeh karnaa paRegaa:

---

kaTii umr hoTloN meN
mare haspataal jaa ke!**:D

[Disney_Princess]

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Islamically, you should get married. You're reasons do not justify not getting married.

On the other hand, if you choose not to get married, then please please come back and tell me what you're doing at the tender age of 60. I will want to make sure I have no regrets about my decision to get married. ;)

[Eshal_Raza]

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"In this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes."

One should get married, but marriage is not a guarantee to a dream old age...I have seen people living a miserable life even when they are married and have kids...
Sad but true!

[Sannan]

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@jiia

JANAZAH haraam hi
MAR GAE MARDUD ,KHATAM NA DARUD:cb:

So u said Bachelor ka janaza haaraam … yah kounsa molana ka irshad-e-garami hay

@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

shaadii na karoge to yeh karnaa paRegaa:
kaTii umr hoTloN meN
mare haspataal jaa ke!

@Disney_Princess

Islamically, you should get married. You’re reasons do not justify not getting married.
On the other hand, if you choose not to get married, then please please come back and tell me what you’re doing at the tender age of 60. I will want to make sure I have no regrets about my decision to get married.

@Eshal_Raza

“In this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.”
One should get married, but marriage is not a guarantee to a dream old age…I have seen people living a miserable life even when they are married and have kids…
Sad but true!

Thanks for giving the replies of above posts…
This is very very sad but really True. I’ve seen many old ppl in Pakistan who are wandering like Amitabh Bachan Movie Baghbaan

[Shazia_Arif]

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plz ustad-e-mohtaram lemme serious here
according 2 islam n sunnah its necessary to get marry specially 4 women that parents dn’t live whole the life so husband can b a shelter for her but if on the other hand i personally feels tht before merriage life is full of liberties…han i agree tht getting marry is a fuss n problem of children is again a headache but still v can’t deny with rules of islam.

[Enigmatic]

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***18-30 years ...' Shadii!?!! no way ..i don't want to change my life into a living hell .."
30+ years ... 'oh you got married too ..congrats yaar... it seems like everybody i know has gotten married'
35+ years ... ' chal yaar lets go for a boys night out thingie ..am stuck in my house doing absolutely nothing - err what you are planning a dinner with your kids and wife ..uhh ok ..later! '
40 + years ... ' i can't take it anymore ..i need someone with me ..i wish i had family too'

***the story of life ! the friends, the hang outs , the partying just reduces to a minimal level after you get into 30s and that's' the phase where everyone wants to settle down and enjoy the comforts of home !

:)

[Sannan]

Re: Is it necessary to get married ?

@Shazia_Arif

plz ustad-e-mohtaram lemme serious here
according 2 islam n sunnah its necessary to get marry specially 4 women that parents dn’t live whole the life so husband can b a shelter for her but if on the other hand i personally feels tht before merriage life is full of liberties…han i agree tht getting marry is a fuss n problem of children is again a headache but still v can’t deny with rules of islam.

So for females its necessary to get married

@Enigmatic

18-30 years …’ Shadii!!! no way ..i don’t want to change my life into a living hell .."
30+ years … ‘oh you got married too ..congrats yaar… it seems like everybody i know has gotten married’
35+ years … ’ chal yaar lets go for a boys night out thingie ..am stuck in my house doing absolutely nothing - err what you are planning a dinner with your kids and wife ..uhh ok ..later! ’
40 + years … ’ i can’t take it anymore ..i need someone with me ..i wish i had family too***’

***the story of life ! the friends, the hang outs , the partying just reduces to a minimal level after you get into 30s and that’s’ the phase where everyone wants to settle down and enjoy the comforts of home !

:hinna: too much horrible scene for 40+
but please read post # 16 as well that even after getting a family in old age u’ll be alone again with Jhirkian of ur DIL