Re: Is it Mothers OR Kids??
Regardless of what the age of the kid is I HATE mothers who think going over to someone’s place means they are not responsible for their kid. I have had a lot of such women come over for dinner who don’t care what their kid is doing. Won’t clean up the mess their kid made at the table or in the bathroom.
And if you happen to say something indirectly to them, then they start with the taaney baazi of abhee toh tumhara hai naheen or abhee toh tumhara bahot chota hai barey ho kar sabh aisey ho jaatey hain…
Kids of today are sharper than kids of yesteryears but it is our job as parents to raise them well. My kid is only 20 months old but I watch him like a hawk when he is around other kids or at other ppl’s homes. Instead of apologizing later I should watch what he is doing and even if I can’t scold him I can divert his attention or keep things out of his reach so he doesn’t break things. This is how kids learn.
yes automone this is wht i was trying to say to make a simple excuse tht they dont listen is not correct u have to make them listen so its parents duty my baby is 1 year but still i make sure she behaves well i know she understand wht i m trying to say
i have seen parents who r not ready to make an effort i have seen such ladies i have an experience n indirectly i told mother ur baby is gng there plz dehkay chot na lag jai n she was beta na karo wthout even looking at the kid
so who to blame kids or mothers?
after reading these, I m like, “oh, so I am not the only one who is suffering this” you two are very VERY true.. I see the same things around! specially mother saying to a kid without seeing him, “beta mat karo” literally this happens a lot!