Re: is it in your right to know what your going to wear
just sweet talk your fiance and make him understand your sentiments. Tell him that you appreciate the sentiment but you're feeling really nervous and want to make sure your sisters/friends etc dont make similar dresses...
or.. tell him u need to plan your hair and make up so u need to see the dress...
or... tell him u're making your jehaiz clothes so u wanna make sure the valima outfit doesnt clash...