Is it fair?

Your best friends or close friends.. whatever you want to call it, do not speak properly to you because of some issues they are facing because of others? Like for instance hell hath fury a woman scorned, ur best friend does not speak to you because of problems with her boy friend or if she has some problems at home or your close friend does not speak to you because she has issues and does not feel like talking or has exams etc?

I can understand that you have to study etc but not talking for like one two days? or even more. And if you contact them then they say sorry do not feel like talking and flatly refuse to talk. Is it fair or just over reaction on my part?

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no thats very wrong?

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^excuse me?

I did not quite get you over there.

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i think they might just need their space.. just because they are your "best friends" or "close friends" doesn't mean they need to tell or talk to you all the time. Sometimes, ppl do need their space to get their thoughts together.

My suggestion, take a break, give them a break and relax with us on GS.

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Yeah true. Thats why even if I am missing someone I do not tell them that I miss them. I hardly tell anyone that. Oh I am on a break from last night:hmmm: Chilling on GS alright.

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well when im in a bad mood sometimes i just want to be left alone...

if someone constantly does this that means they don't want to share anything with you & you guys aren't as "close" or "best" as you thought :]

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All relationships need space. If your friend is upset, then giving her distance to cool off is better as opposed to her talking to you when she's in a surly mood. Sometimes when people are in a bad mood....they can take their anger out on friends and can say things that can potentially destroy the friendship. So, give them time to cool off. Everyone deals with stress differently.

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^seriously dude you rock with the advice