Re: ....is it fair???
Its easy to point fingers at the person spending big money on something s/he waited for their entire life. The truth is you don't know diddly-squat about what his/her charity habbits are. S/He may be giving out twice as much more in donations then what s/he spends on his/her big day. The fact of the matter is, it's their money. What you said can be said about anything you spend money on, regardless of the amount. For some folks, its always going to be too much spent unwisely and for some, its going to be worth while.