Re: Is it fair to reject someone based on their bad reputation
LOL…you’re supposedly “friends” with this girl and even you’re not 100% sure about what she has and had not done. If Pakistani men and/or their families don’t want to take a risk that a slut is joining their family, then they have every right to do that. Besides, what’s so special about your friend? Why should a Pakistani family going through the arranged rishta route choose your friend over another girl who has the same qualifications/type of looks etc and does not have a dating history and a ex-boyfriend who’s going to tell the community about their past relationship?
I’m sure your friend is not stupid. Surely your friend and you both know that in the Pakistani community…dating is not acceptable by most people…especially in the type of families that do arranged rishtas. So your friend needs to find a family that is very liberal and doesn’t care about the fact that she has dated other guys in the past. BTW, in the UK…its also normal for girls to find their own future husbands.