Is it fair to reject someone based on their bad reputation

[Mani84]

Re: Is it fair to reject someone based on their bad reputation

@hannah12

I posted a post previously regarding a friend who was under rishta process for 7 months and the guy side didn’t finalise. I just found out that the guy’s mother kept asking around what sort of a person she is. And few aunties told her that, back in uni days, she used to come up to their daughters and brag how hot she is for getting a new guy every week etc (which I think is total bull**** .. although I am not saying my friend is a total saint.. but she is not a whore or slut as described). Plus some aunty’s daughter informed her ex boyfriend how she might be getting engaged. That ex went to the guy’s house and told them about their previous relationship and said she is this and that etc .. and the guy side finally sent a rejection to my friend and gave that reason for rejecting.

Ok I don’t know my friend too well. But I am sure she is not as bad as people are making her to be. I mean, here in uk, it is normal to have relationships as long as you are not cheating or sleeping with men etc My friend did tell me she changed herself and stopped talking to boys for past 2 years. Since she hasn’t been out for 2 years and changed herself, I don’t understand how her past is relevant to her rishta? Was it fair?

The question is,
why guy went to the guy’s house