Is it cheating?

[Niksik]

@redvelvet

I never said there was a justification. Even the lack of control/conscience wouldn’t be a justification…there are just reasons that are given (that are not good enough).

I was only saying that whether or not such fantasizing takes place…it’s something that few people would find out about because few would feel comfortable admitting it…(if they did it). Not saying it’s justification. Apart from fantasizing…there are other ways in which we all slip up as well. And the better thing is for one to realize that they’re straying and make the effort to come back to the right path. You try to better yourself…true…but generally speaking…the “straying” whether physically or mentally…is not always revealed. I was just thinking that if the OP’s friend is concerned about such fantasizing…it’s something that she may not ever find out about.

I wasn’t saying you said that . I was sort of elaborating on how people can go to different levels of this…agree with your 2nd paragraph.

[malta]

How would you even find out that he's mentally cheating on you?

FEW people would admit to their partner that they were fantasizing about another person AT ALL.......let alone during physical intimacy.

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I don't consider this mentally cheating. I go by the creed that what I don't know can't hurt me. So if nimboo secretly thinks about pomegranate sometimes, and i don't know about it, why should I let it bother me? **
**
But I find pineapple so sexy. How do I overcome this. :(**

[Niksik]

Re: Is it cheating?

LOL, malta, just think that pineapple is thorny and spiky and not as smooth as nimboo. That should help.

And if you still can't stop thinking of pineapple, then maybe you and nimboo should have a talk.

[diwana]

@NaMaan

In THAT situation I doubt if any man can push his real brain to fantasize about someone else . Blame flow of blood . Lets blame women for this .

lol

Now you are pushing your luck! Good luck my friend!

[Sara516]

Re: Is it cheating?

but underneath all the thorns, pineapple is sweet and juicy, while nimboo is khatta and can be quite painful to the eye. Im jus sayin'.

[sa-Nafooz]

Re: Is it cheating?

^it’s cheating okay

but nimboo, pineapple and all??

[aaliyahkhan1]

Re: Is it cheating?

Now this page of the thread sounds like bees and the flowers scenes of old bollywood movies

[NaMaan]

@Sara516

but underneath all the thorns, pineapple is sweet and juicy, while nimboo is khatta and can be quite painful to the eye. Im jus sayin’.

For you Sara

[aaliyahkhan1]

Re: Is it cheating?

^:rotfl:

[AngelEyess]

O God…wat a topic…ofcourse its cheating…WITHOUT A DOUBT

[AngelEyess]

@firenze

it’s normal… according to some married guys.. wallah-o-alam !

uffffffffff…thts disgusting…n 4 their betterhalf…heartbreaking
the revenge shud b

[Decent_6Chora]

@TLK

real question is .. how would farzana feel

[Decent_6Chora]

** I don't consider this mentally cheating. I go by the creed that what I don't know can't hurt me. So if nimboo secretly thinks about pomegranate sometimes, and i don't know about it, why should I let it bother me? ** ** But I find pineapple so sexy. How do I overcome this. :(**

just think of pineapple hitting you hard, with its skin that is :)

[Gaia]

Re: Is it cheating?

Wow!!

I am amazed at the reply’s. That’s all.

[ShimmerV]

Re: Is it cheating?

dude the topic has cheating written all over it…do u even need an explanation fr such a duh thing

[WitchDr]

*I was having a discussion with my friend, let's call her kino, and she was of the opinion that fantasizing about another person during intimate acts is considered cheating. I disagreed as I have a different standard of cheating. What do you guys think? *

Well! If I think about it, men don't normally think during the major intimate act. Thinking takes mind off from what you feel.

Well! Definitely not cheating.

[Mirch]

WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!???? I will soooo kill him if he does that after we get married...and yeah...he loves to tell me everything that goes through his mind :ASA:

You need a mind reading contraption to find out the truth. I can sell you one.

[Decent_6Chora]

Re: Is it cheating?

cheating is not only when you get caught.

[Niksik]

but underneath all the thorns, pineapple is sweet and juicy, while nimboo is khatta and can be quite painful to the eye. Im jus sayin'.

Then nimboo and malta should call it quits if they can't be faithful even in their thoughts.

[Elegance]

*fantasizing about another person during intimate acts is considered cheating. I disagreed as I have a different standard of cheating. What do you guys think? *

I just call this first step towards cheating.