Is it better to be...

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for sure the first option cuz single doesn't meen u can't move on, at least there's a solution.

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There is no guarantee that either of the two scenerios would work so i guess each individual would select what suits their circumstances. However, i don't see many people stop @ scenerio #1 because a) most human beings crave for companionship b) there is always a hope within that it may just work out the next time c) society somewhat dictates this too.

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2nd option. The 2nd provides me with an opportunity to actually make work the unworkable, and even if all the other options have been exhausted, I'd still try my best to be patient . Makes the belief a whole lot more firm if its a marriage. I'd wanna be the last to ask for the D word

The 1st on the other hand, provides me with absolutely nothing.

"God will not give you burden you cant handle. If you ever find yourself in a mess, which seems impossible to resolve, take it as a compliment. God thinks you can do it."

Reminds me of the saying "it's better to have lost at love, than never to have loved at all...." oh wait, I think that's a lyric from one of Poison's love ballads...aahhh, gotta love the '80's hair bands!!!

Ok, enough derailing...I say option 1.

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The first one I suppose.

With that, you can have another go at something new and perhaps something better?

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if you like to play safe, then option 1 is the most sane one…otherwise miserable honay ka nahi, Kernay Ka! :smokin:

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Ugh you lot can't comprehend a couple of sentences?

  1. You get your heart broken. Proper deep cut and all. You're single. Hello Handjelina!

  2. You are in a miserable relationship. No two ways about it. No, you cannot fix it. Sorry.

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^ is this weird explanation u specifically posted for me???

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Not just you, no.

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sirf No likhanay main kia takleef hai?

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1st

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Vas-y mollo!

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abb yeh kia hai???
apni language boltay howay kia takleef hoti hai?

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M'enu Takleef Hondi Eh Teh Tenu Ay Vekh Ke Kyon Takleef Hondi Eh?

Basically, stop derailing the thread!

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^ :omg: :omg: :omg:

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my sig…:hehe:

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better to cry alone.....
... why u wanna make someone else life miserable with you?

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Thank you for explaining it better than I could <3

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mixture of both situations.

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Such a relationship where you are feeling miserable, will just suffocate you. You will start thinking negatively and it will affect your mood, your personality and your life. I rather be heartbroken and single, get over the whole thing and have control over my life, then be emotionally blackmailed and my feelings played with.