Re: Is it bad luck to get married on the same day as your siblings?
first of all..inna lillah hi wa ina ehi rajeon..i feel soo sorry for that poor girl
second of all.. OMG.. i was going to get married the same day as my nand b4 previously
Re: Is it bad luck to get married on the same day as your siblings?
Comeon folks, bad things happen to people, and this will happen to those siblings as well who got married on same day and to those also who dont. But if God forbid it happens to those married on same day, people will blame it on this superstition and if it happens to others, it will Allah ki marzi.
Re: Is it bad luck to get married on the same day as your siblings?
I got married on same day my ex's sibling got married. My marriage did not survive. Another two siblings of my ex got married on same day and one of the sibling's marriage ended up in divorce within a month. That divorced sibling of my ex married again and that marriage was again a twin marriage , the marriage is so far surviving but it's not going well.
My dad's two brother got married on same day , both of their marriages have been good one alhamdolillah , it's been more than 20 years and they are still going strong. I have seen so many twin marriages turning out to be good. In one of my relatives the guy married off his 2 daughters with 2 brothers (they were first cousins) so the wedding and walima both were twins and masha allah the marriages are going very well.
What is destined to happen with happen ! Like RV said that time of death is already decided by Allah , you can not put blame of it on anyone. Similarly , some times wrong marriages takes place and you know people say "humar ankon pay patti band gayee thi is lye yeh rishta ho gaya " sometimes even when you know the person is not right , the family is not right you end up getting married to him/her .....fate ! I know it's also called bewaqoofi but sometimes things happen because they were meant to happen. I read somewhere on GS that the pain and troubles you get in this world will be rewarded in after life in many folds. Sometimes Allah gives you suffering and pain in this life and saves you from the hardship of after life. There are so many reasoning. May Allah give sabar to that girl ameen , she or any situation should not be blamed for the death of her husband.
Re: Is it bad luck to get married on the same day as your siblings?
Last night what happened was , I received a phone call from a friend and she gave me a shocking news. My friend and her sis got married on the same day last year Oct n their bro got married a week before them. All of them got married from Pakistan, came back after 3 months in December.
Both sisters were working to sponsor their hubbies. Now what has happened to be is elder sis’s husband got shot in Pakistan yesterday. God knows , why he got shot. According to my friend, somebody shot him mistakenly as Pakistan’s current circumstances are going worse eg target killing.
When I heard this news, I really got stunned. Because it’s only been few months since she got married. They spent only 3 months with each other. She doesn’t have enough memories to remember him. Some people say that may be it happened cz both sis got married on the same day which isn’t a good thing. One couple lives happily n the other one suffers. And brother got married week before them . so, three brides and 3 grooms ,may be thy got some evil eye nazr thing.
I really feel sorry for her. It's an awful situation for the poor girl, as in pk society they blame girl for this. Oh yes, you got married n left our son in Pakistan and now he got shot. Parents were so happy that their 3 kids got married , no more responsibilities. But who knows? Some time Allah puts you in life time troubles.
I am imagining how hard it could be to take her to Pakistan full 8hours flight. And, then she will see her husband dead. Really sad :( I've never heard of this type bad luck thing before. Do you think ,its true?
ufff stilll people believe all thisss.....