Is it bad luck to get married on the same day as your siblings?

[Lilly]

Re: Is it bad luck to get married on the same day as your siblings?

@redvelvet

Tum samajh kyoon nahin rahi??? Agar tum is baat ko pooray dil se maanti ho k hamaray iraadon k tootnay ki peechay Allah hai…to is ka yeh matlab hua k these “superstitious ideas about bad luck” are not what controls our life. And that’s okay, cuz I have a feeling you’re still not gonna get it.

**************Hopefully some people will come here and share examples of weddings where two sisters or two brothers got married…and things turned out well. That way you won’t go around believing silly things like “story is slightly different but result is the same.”

You know…I hope that the family of that guy (who died) is sensible enough to not blame their bahu for their son’s death. I hope that they are smart enough and more importantly STRONG ENOUGH…to not believe in such superstitions. Because, it’s not uncommon for one to have irrational thoughts or to play the blame game when coming to terms with the death of a loved one. It’s sad that the elders hold such superstitious views…but it’s even sadder when the younger generation can’t think logically either…cuz that just perpetuates the backwardness in our culture as well as the social issues (injustice toward women).

@redvelvet

Here’s a thread from a few months ago dealing with the same topic. And in this thread..there are a couple of members who have mentioned this particular superstition. But look at Pyaare’s post in the thread…her example refutes the superstition.

Moreover, if a marriage fails (in this scenario)…it could be because the couple was incompatible or other issues…and not necessarily because of “superstition.” Superstition eliminates the concept of individual responsibility and accountability. It can even be the “easy way out.”

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/wedding/415140-what-is-your-take.html

Rv, i have read your comments and checked the other thread too. sos, i was upset n was unaware of such thing that’s why had no idea what to come up with.
After reading pyaray’s post i realised that each individual has its own destiny.

@khawateen

ive heard of this too from the baray buzurg in my family… 2 siblings shouldnt have their nikah on the same day as it brings bad luck to one of the couples… im not one for supersitions but do doubt calling it just that as ive witnessed it happening to quite a few ppl i know. not so easy to shrug it off as a simple superstition for me…

I think its a myth that people think is real but don’t exist.